Most men are probably okay with any kind of $ex as long as it is sex. But you can set yourself apart from others by doing these things that would completely make him obsess over you.
1. Talk dirty: It's not like you need to narrate everything that's happening, but you'd be surprised what a few well-placed dirty words can do to a guy. Not everyone is comfortable doing this, but there's no need to venture too far out of your comfort zone. Words and phrases like "wet," "feels so good," and "harder" can still work wonders. Just don't get too clinical: "I can confirm your penis is inside my vagina" isn't going to do it for anyone.
2. Take control: There are few things hotter than a girl who knows what she wants, and there are a lot of different ways to communicate that to a guy. You could do something as simple as pushing him down on the bed and pinning his arms down over his head while you're on top. Taking control of which position you are moving to next can also be really hot. Just like talking dirty, this doesn't have to be anything too complicated or filthy.
3. Surprise him: I'll admit, some guys can be intimidated if you start pulling out vibrators from underneath the mattress in the middle of sex. But throwing some new things in there to shake up your lovemaking is really never a bad idea. You can even make the $ex itself a surprise: Jump your significant other in the hallway or on the stairs, and just turn it into a $ex session. Moments like that, where you can't control yourself and just have to have us, are always appreciated.
4. Put on a show: Visual stimulation really gets guys going. Choosing positions like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl where he can really get a view of what's happening is hugely arousing. Alternatively, any position can benefit from a well-placed mirror where he can get a full view of the action. If you're feeling really courageous, let your man watch you while you touch yourself. If you really want to drive him crazy, don't let him touch or kiss you during the session, so he gets really worked up. This also has the added benefit of showing him what turns you on because he can see how you get yourself off.
5. Be Open: It is important that women are open to trying new things. You do not have to do anything you are not comfortable with, but if you at least give what he wants a chance, he will certainly find that a turn-on.
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