For Women - 6 things you should stop doing in the bedroom

Women should strive to be better in the bedroom, since they are more likely to be satisfied by their men if they bring their A game. There are a few $ex acts that are not helping your bedroom game.

If you are guilty of doing these in the bedroom, ditch the habit fast.


1. Not speaking up: And no, we do not mean yelling instructions at your man. By speaking up in this sense mean giving your moan of approval, guiding his hands or whispering your needs. He is not psychic, and if you do not give him an inkling on what works or doesn't work for you, he can't please you. Plus, being silent is a total mood kliller.

2. Not initiating: It is not solely the man's job to initiate. As a woman, making the first move on your man can be a huge turn-on. It shows confident, it is $exy, and it makes him feel desired, all of which will work in your favour too.

3. Unresponsive: Just like the woman who does not speak up, this is one who does not respond at all. No movement, no desire to meet his thrusts or urge him on with her body. She basically just lays there. No man would want that. It is your $ex too, get in and participate.

4. Fake orgasms: Most women are guilty of this and it is quite unfair, to you and to him. If a man finds out he has been deceived this way, it could be a huge mood killer. Plus, pretending you are there when you are not makes it very unlikely that he will ever take you there.

5. Being a selfish lover: People assume it is just men that can be selfish in bed, but women can too. If you encounter a man who is very giving, then return the favour. If he pleases you orally until you orgasm, makes sure he touches you and stimulate your hot spots, and caters to your need, it is only fair you give him the same courtesy. The best $ex is usually between two giving lovers.

6. Keeping him in the dark: Some women have the habit of preferring to have $ex only when its dark. This could be because they are insecure about their body, or simply shy. Most men are visual creatures. They get turned on by what they see so it is a disservice to them if they never see your body.  Besides, if he does not like your body the way it is, he would not be having $ex with you, so get it out of your head that he would disapprove of how you look. Show your man a good time